Velma Kingsley 1916-2013
Velma Katherine (Emmert) Kingsley, 97, died at 7 a.m. on Dec. 20, 2013, at Frieda House, Bluffton, Ohio. She was born Sept. 30, 1916, to the late John and Grace (Plank) Emmert in Topeka Ind. On Sept. 1, 1940, she married Leonard D. Kingsley who died on June 5, 2012.
Her early teaching career was interrupted by her whole-hearted embrace of motherhood; she later home-schooled some of her eight children when the family lived in Kupang, Timor, Indonesia.
After her retirement from formal teaching, she hosted families and school groups on “Your Day-Off Farm” at Adrian, Mich. Many international students benefitted from her volunteer service teaching English. Her dedication to service to others led her to serve as a hospice visitor, and, until she was 92, she also visited the “elderly” in nursing homes.
Her love of world travel started with a three-year church-related assignment for Leonard and Velma and their seven (soon to be eight) children in Timor, Indonesia, in the 1950s. Other travels took them to Africa, South and Central America, and again to Asia.
Survivors include children: Phillip (Judith) Kingsley of Bluffton, Keith (Gretchen) Kingsley of Elkhart, Ind., Karl (Karen) Kingsley of Elkhart, Ind., Sue Ellen Kingsley (Terry Kinzel) of Hancock, Mich., Mitchell (Ann) Kingsley of Bluffton, Jane Steinmetz of Bluffton, Matthew Kingsley of Lone Pine, California, and Frederick (Craig) Kingsley of Pewaukee, Wisc., and 20 grandchildren and 20 great-grandchildren.
She was preceded in death by four brothers: Roy Emmert, Howard Emmert, Arthur Emmert and Paul Emmert; and two sisters: Evelyn Eash and Vera Ulmer.
A memorial service will be held at First Mennonite Church, Bluffton, Ohio at 11 a.m. on March 8, 2014. The family will be available for visitation before the service at 9:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Heifer International (http://www.heifer.org) or to First Mennonite Church, Bluffton.
Online condolences may be expressed at www.chiles-lamanfh.com. Arrangements are by Chiles-Laman Funeral and Cremation Services, Bluffton.
Stories Posted This Week
Friday, September 18, 2026
- September 18 Bluffton Schools athletics lineup, streaming
- Bluffton welcomes incoming class from nine states
- September 2026 Bluffton Lions Club update
- Pirate volleyball sweeps Lima Central Catholic
- Pirate boys soccer win vs. Kenton
- Ramseyer shares grandmother’s fight for citizenship during Bluffton Constitution Day Forum
- How Dillinger robbed a Bluffton bank
Thursday, September 17, 2026
Wednesday, September 16, 2026
Tuesday, September 15, 2026
- Phyllis Ann Reynolds, 77, worked at Citizens National Bank
- Jane Ann (Diller) Thurman, 75, was a nursing home administrator
- Julie C. (Field) Amstutz worked for Putnam County ESC
- Pirate volleyball sweep vs. Wayne Trace
- Findlay Patrol's Donovan promoted to sergeant
- Pirate girls soccer win vs. Delphos Jefferson
- Sept. 14 Bluffton Council: Request for RTA bus signs, pre-1950s unused Maple Grove plots tallied
- Mornings with Mommy resume at Trinity Lutheran