Weekend Doctor: Holidays and depression
By James H. Legge III, MSN, APRN-CNP, PMHNP
Certified Nurse Practitioner, Psychiatric Center of Northwest Ohio
The holiday months (mid-November to post-January) can be extremely difficult for loved ones suffering from mental illness. It’s postulated that family members and friends can reach intolerable levels of anxiety and depression during this time due to accentuated family dynamics, financial strain, and other stressors.
Veterans Day occurs at the beginning of this period and is a stark reminder of veteran suicide, in addition to the other mental health challenges that are experienced by this select group. While I was working on this topic with a local veterans’ services office, a book was brought to my attention called “Tribe,” authored by Sebastian Junger. This book stresses the importance of a strong interpersonal support network. One example discussed how Native American veterans, when reabsorbed back into their support network, experience significantly lower reported rates of mental illness-related problems. Instances such as this highlight the importance of support networks, demonstrating how we can help those suffering from the isolation of post-traumatic stress. This thought process also helps better understand a true support network.
A support network refers to people who are integrated into a person’s life and available to help not only on a personal level but on a professional level as well. In each instance, the benefits of goal setting and attainment are significant. Striving toward the completion of a satisfying goal is one of the most powerful ways to reduce suicidal thoughts and behavior. While it is concerning to consider how many of our friends and neighbors are dealing with the hopelessness of mental illness, it is comforting to know that a strong support network can truly make a difference.
Related to the support network is the concept of the “safety plan.” A safety plan is a proactive tool of empowerment. Like a seatbelt or a fire drill, a safety plan involves recognizing, planning for, and responding to warning signs. Some of the parts of a safety plan include identifying and responding to behavioral changes; building internal coping strategies (such as avoiding mental roadblocks); integrating into and utilizing the help of a support network (and mutually understanding the roles of family and friends); becoming environmentally aware and prepared (such as removing lethal items from the home); and understanding the availability of local resources designed to help (such as crisis line numbers, therapeutic contacts, and emergency room locations).
While identifying a support network and creating a safety plan can seem like difficult tasks, there are experienced care teams trained to help. As vital features of the mental healthcare landscape, support networks and safety plans have the power to save a life.
Stories Posted This Week
Tuesday, November 10, 2026
- James Raymond Harrod, Jr., 64, was a PGA professional
- Nathan Ulrey, 46, served in the Navy Seabees
- Letter: Thank you, Coach Richards
- Big Brothers Big Sisters launches 2026 year-end giving campaign
- Socktober drive collected 659 pairs for local distribution
- Jeanne Previte, 80, owned and operated Jeanne's Kitchen
- Bluffton Elementary Honor Roll for 1st Quarter 2026-2027
- Lego scarecrow earns GROB top honors from voters
- Former Blufftonite is lieutenant governor-elect of South Carolina
- University to stage costume drama that mixes emotion, humor and contemporary references
- Bluffton High School Honor Roll for 1st quarter of 2026-2027
- Nov. 13 chamber program on Opportunities for Ohioans with Disabilities
Monday, November 9, 2026
- Healing and life beyond incarceration explored at Forum
- Nov. 12 opportunity to learn Mahjong
- Door hanger craft class at Pandora library, November 17
- BPL after school movie, November 16
- Hailey's Wellness and Massage provide chair massages at Senior Center
- Bluffton area Women in Business Meeting November 19
Sunday, November 8, 2026
Saturday, November 7, 2026
- Pirates Essinger and Gatchel finish cross country season at OHSAA Championships
- Nov. 7 Bluffton Schools athletics lineup, streaming
- Pirate football hits Archbold roadblock in playoff loss
- Forum: Vaughn explores biblical and multicultural accounts of spirits and exorcism
- Bluffton University relaunches Leadership Development Program with NetVUE grant support
- Weekend Doctor: When distraction becomes the default